Friday, July 31, 2015

When Do You Start School?

When do you start school?
So I've been debating about when to start school next year. Public schools around here start after Labor Day, but a lot of homeschool families seem to like starting in August. Last year we started in June because I was having a baby and knew I would need the flex time.
We were able to finish our core curriculum in May and this summer I've been doing worksheets 1-2 times a week and plenty of reading, but I think we're going to start school officially AFTER LABOR DAY.
This is why:
1) I'm not having a baby this year and we're not planning a big vacation so we won't need *as much* flex time.
2) My oldest is born in October, so she's technically a year ahead in her curriculum, and a few extra months of development is critical so things aren't *too* hard.
3) I can, and I need a break. If we need more flex time, we'll school into next summer, but I think for our family ending later is better than starting early. because of the October birthday, and my girls are still technically both a year ahead of where they need to be in most areas (except writing) so I'm not sweating it.

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Reward Idea For Your Kids


What are botanically speaking fruit,  and would help motivate your children in the next homeschool year?

Why Bob and Larry of Veggie Tales of course! 

In my post yesterday I talked about how making a reward chart put a stop to our bed time battles. 
When used correctly reward charts can be huge motivators, especially when kids need to develop a habit: brushing teeth, reading every day, staying in bed etc.

If you plan on using reward charts this next school year or even if you just want to get your kids a present, I have something I know they'll work hard to earn.

Here's the thing, my kids love videos, and they Love, I mean LOVE Veggie Tales.  And quite frankly I love that they love them because there is no worry of too much potty humor or bare butts in Veggie Tales (I'm looking at you Minion movie).

And even though their looks have changed over the years (I watched the "Grapes of Wrath" episode not to long ago and the animation today is just amazing compared to then) they are still the same God honoring vegetables that I grew up loving as a child.

And now not only are they on Netflix but they have adorable stuffed plushes (affiliate link)based on the new animation you can buy.

Bob the Tomato Beanie Plush 2015 Larry the Cucumber Beanie Plush 2015

I was sent 2 to review,  Bob and Larry. Let me tell you they are super cute, and soft too.  I happen to be a fan of their new look (as are my kids), they just seem (for lack of a better word) more animated now.

If you're kids are fans of the DVD's or new animated series they will love these guys, and they make for an affordable motivating reward.

Saturday, July 25, 2015

How We Got Our Kids To Stop Getting out of Bed With a Wishing Web

My kids were 6,4, and 3.  They were also being naughty and not staying in bed when it was lights out.


The excuses grew every night, and the sneaking out to the top of the stairs grew incessant.  But neither my husband nor I  wanted to discipline too harshly because whenever we "laid down the law" it would delay bedtime even longer for a tantrum.

I don't like bed time tantrums.

Enter in Miss Spider's Bedtime Story App (affiliate link).  

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My son was obsessed with it for whatever reason.  Essentially the little bugs are not going to bed when they're supposed to, so the parents make a reward chart called a wishing web.  When they reach the top of the chart, they go to a carnival. 

It's a really cute app, and as soon as I told my kids we were going to make a wishing web, they knew what I meant and were super excited.


We put the reward chart up and if they stayed in bed we'd move them up one, if the got out of bed they'd wake up in the morning and see that they were still at the same spot.  

It helped that we didn't make a big deal out of them not moving up, other than a warning, until morning so there weren't any tantrums, right when we wanted them in bed. Another thing was we never threatened to move them down.  

All it took was my girls reaching the top and getting prizes before my son one time before they were completely different children when it came to staying in bed.  We kept using it until they developed the habit of staying in bed.

I highly recommend checking out the app if you have a Kindle or another compatible device, and making a reward chart for bedtime, it certainly worked for us.


Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Sonlight Curriculum Unboxing With The Kids

My over enthusiastic children and I unbox our curriculum for next year.  We heart Sonlight!


Subscribers click link to see video.

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Avoiding the Summer Slide With This One Simple Tip

Summer is here! Summer is here!! I'm from Michigan, so this is really exciting.  Especially since we had snow into May.  Seriously, not cool.

Last summer I intentionally didn't stop homeschooling when summer hit.  I figured with a baby due in September if I didn't homeschool last summer I'd be homeschooling this summer just to keep on track.

I'm not going to lie it was a very, looooonnng year.  But now summer is here, I *might* take a break, the family hasn't decided just yet.  Year long homeschooling has it's benefits but mama needs a vacation sometimes.

Which brings my thoughts to the dreaded "summer slide."  It goes with the territory of a summer vacation.  Kids take off three months of school, they pretty much forget three months of school.

So, how do you avoid it?

While this isn't a fool proof trick, there is a secret that I guarantee will help your kids.  Here it is:

Make them read for a half hour to an hour every day. And make sure they have plenty of books that they love.  

Go to the library have them pick out fiction and nonfiction that interests them and get them reading.  Make a chart, reward them, do what you need to do, just get them reading.

I told you it was a no brainier, but seriously do it.

What are your tricks for avoiding the summer slide?


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Monday, March 30, 2015

Why I'm Done Buying Cheap Toys


It's so tempting, I'm at a thrift store, a dollar store, or a clearance section and I see something for just a dollar that I know my kids will love. The excitement in their faces when I bring it home would seriously make my day.  

Who doesn't like giving their kids a treat now and then?

Here's the problem, with four kids the toy situation,  in my home is a little out of control.  Toy rotation has helped, but with Easter coming soon I am NOT going to give them a basket full of dollar store toys  that will break or get lost within a week.  

They get plenty of trinkets from church, birthday parties and their grandparents, that's cool.  My kids are blessed. But this is why I'm done buying cheap toys.  They already have enough and they're bound to get more.  For the sake of my sanity I can at least limit what they get from me, Quite frankly I would buy something for them every time I'm out if I had the money, which is just NOT an option.

So with Easter coming, I've decided instead of an Easter Basket I'm getting my kids a DVD or two.   It's the perfect gift for my kiddos because they love new DVD's, and have been asking for a few different ones lately that aren't in our normal budget.

What's also great  is, these days it's easy to find Christian DVD's that my kids will love.  Not that I'm against secular T.V. shows or movies, but it's nice to be able to point back to God on Easter.

I had the opportunity to review the newest Veggie Tales movie, Noah's Ark.  My kids and I loved it.  I'd highly recommend it if your kids are Veggie fans.  I wrote about it here if you'd like to know more.  Honestly I should have been smarter and saved it for an Easter gift rather than opening it right away.  

What faith based DVD's do your family's love?  What are you sticking in the basket this year?

Thursday, August 28, 2014

How I Adjusted To Being A Full Time Stay At Home Mom


We can all pretend that a new year starts in January, but having been a teacher for eight years, and now a mom with school age children, it always feels like the "real new year" starts in September.  The day after labor day to be exact.

This year has been a hard one, and one of transition.  It started with September when I started "formally" homeschooling my oldest.  


And ironically this transition wasn't the hardest last year.  Homeschooling Kindergarten was awesome and fun.

Unfortunately the year also began with a bit of a surprise, that came by way of e-mail.  I was out of a job. Notifying me by e-mail was not cool.  The writing on the wall had been obvious, simply because enrollment was down, but it still came as a shock, 1 day before I was scheduled to teach.

I definitely had a freak out moment, mostly because we had no back up plan for my income, but blessedly just as my income got cut, my husband's income was picking up by way of extra commissions.  So money wasn't an issue. My personal identity however, was.

Ever since I had Ivy (my first) I've called myself a "mostly stay at home mom."  I worked one, maybe two days a week for 2 maybe 3 hours teaching at a local college.  I LOVED the classes that I taught, but didn't realize how much I let being a teacher define me.  I was comfortable being a "mostly stay at home mom."  I wasn't in the house the whole time, just most of the time.

This past year, I've seen myself as being "just a stay at home mom."  No career, no outside work.

Coupled with a surprise, but welcome, pregnancy that has literally zapped all my energy I've struggled with my worth this past year.

I've struggled with the fact that I feel like I haven't accomplished anything.  I struggle with the fact that even though I'm home more, the house isn't always immaculate.  I've struggled with the fact I haven't written much this past year or worked to grow my self-employment income.

And yet, at some point during this past year I realized despite the self-loathing how much I had "accomplished" even though I wasn't being paid to do any of it.

I realized at some point I would never say to a daycare worker, "Oh you just watch kids all day, that's not a real job."  

I would never say to a chef, "Oh you make breakfast, lunch, and dinner for people.  I bet that isn't mentally stimulating."

I would never say to a maid, "So you clean up other people's messes.  How degrading."

I would never say to an elementary school teacher, "Oh you teach 5 year old's, well I teach college.  My contribution to society is so much more valuable than yours."

No!  I'd never say any of these things.  Because I realize a person's value is so much more than their career, not to mention the fact that every single one of the aforementioned careers are honest, good, hard work that contributes to society in meaningful ways.

Why on earth then did I say these things in my own brain?  Why did I think I was "just" a stay at home mom rather than embracing this new exciting season in my life, where I am blessed to be there for my children for more time than I was before.

Changing my thinking has been hard.  Very hard.  But fortunately at some point in the past year it happened.  Maybe all I really needed was time to adjust.

I taught at a local Bible college for seven years because that's where God was calling me to be, at that time.  I was able to be a blessing to my students by teaching them music.

God closed that door though, and the window he opened was one of continued humble service to my family.  
I've been homeschooling through the summer with my now first grader and pre-kindergartner.  As everyone gears up to start their new school year we'll actually be taking a break, so I can survive the end of this pregnancy and then adjust to a new baby.

I'm so excited about this next year though.  I've had time to adjust to my new role, and while I know a new baby is sure to shake things up again, I know a little bit better who I am.

Ultimately though my identity doesn't even lay in being a stay a home, homeschooling mom, it lays in Christ.  I'll follow wherever he leads.  And right now he's leading me home.



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